God Has Ordained that marriage be Santified-A state or Ceremony of being married; the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony which is only acceptable by God according to his original plan for mankind to reproduce or be fruitful and multiply. Marriage is between one man and one woman being joined together by almighty God as one and they two shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5, Mark 10:8, and Ephesians Chapter 5 in the Holy Bible. The scriptures state: "And for this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife and they shall become one flesh. God is adament about his divine structural order that it be adhered to. Therefore...WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN or " No One" SEPARATE, OR CAUSE THEM TO BE PUT ASUNDER. SEE: Mark 1:9 (KJV)

The Joys of a Christian Marriage is meant to last as a testimony of both couples genuine devotion to God, then that love carries over into their own relationship between each other  first and then is extended for spreading abroad. That is the proper formula for giving and receiving love. God is at the top of the list, then our spouses, our children and other relatives, each one in their appropriate places  and only

... then our care can extend to other outsiders. I think this to be Biblically wise advise for all  married and engaged to be wedded couples.